THE ROLE OF POSTVENTION
However, if a tragedy does occur, providing support to those affected becomes equally important in preventing further harm.
The impact of suicide ripples far beyond immediate family, affecting friends, classmates, and teachers. Peers from informal groups, such as tuition classes and online communities, can be just as devastated by the loss.
I witnessed this firsthand when my daughter lost a friend after a fall from height. I was heartened to see that her friend’s school had structured interventions in place to support classmates and teachers during that difficult time.
Postvention is not only about supporting those grieving but also about preventing further suicides by addressing the emotional fallout within a community.
Schools and communities must be able to provide age-specific support. Parents, too, must be involved in this process.
Discussing death, especially suicide, with children can be incredibly challenging. Many fear that bringing up the topic might trigger anxiety or, worse, plant suicidal thoughts in their minds.
However, avoiding the subject can lead to confusion and a sense of isolation. Open communication builds trust, ensuring children know they will be supported – not judged – when they share emotions.
While youth suicides are concerning, it’s important to remember that most youths in Singapore are resilient and capable of coping with challenges. With strong support systems – through families, schools and communities – our young people can navigate stress, build resilience and emerge stronger.
As someone who has worked closely with young people and their families, I have seen firsthand how the right support can make all the difference.
It’s not only the big interventions that save lives but the everyday acts of kindness, understanding and listening that show our youth they are valued.
Dr Jared Ng is Senior Consultant and Medical Director at Connections MindHealth. He was previously chief of the department of emergency and crisis care at the Institute of Mental Health.
