Still, I recognise the symbolism behind this annual gesture. So, in the spirit of sticking to tradition, for those with similar industry practices, consider checking if recipients would like to receive a gift before sending one instead. After all, holiday season or not, no one likes to feel imposed upon.
Your recipient would probably decline if they’re anything like me, but asking is the most effective way to ensure they notice the thought that counts.
GIVING TO PEOPLE WHO DON’T LIKE RECEIVING GIFTS
That said, not all gifts are made equal. So if you must give, do so with intention.
Many of us who dislike receiving gifts respect the nuances of gifting in different cultures. We essentially dislike the Westernised social construct of gifting, not all gifts.
I, for one, dislike receiving generic gifts that make up 99 per cent of presents – the holiday season equivalent of a fridge magnet travel souvenir. Contrary to what we’d like to believe about our ability to know what other people want, many of us are mediocre gift-givers.
I love a highly specific gift. A friend once surprised me with a S$2 gachapon capsule that resembled a mini claw machine to hold daily supplements, after we spoke about how gamifying everyday tasks creates a sense of novelty for me to stick to a routine.
It’s not the most practical or convenient gift. Neither have I used it religiously. But it was thoughtful, and more important, unique to our conversation and friendship.
